Insights into the buyer’s mind – secrets revealed-Insights into the buyers mind secrets revealed

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Mark Shenkis, a procurement expert and author, explained how sales and procurement each assume the other side has a better position, but in reality both are connected. He introduced key negotiation principles: satisfaction, comfort, and power. Satisfaction depends not just on the outcome, but on expectations; the same £10,000 bonus can feel disappointing or great depending on whether it was expected or not. He stressed that negotiations should be uncomfortable enough to create focus, but not so stressful that people stop thinking clearly.  <br /><br />Shenkis then described “blue” and “red” negotiation styles. Blue is competitive, price-focused, and win-lose; red is collaborative, long-term, and win-win. He linked these styles to buyer categories in procurement’s purchasing portfolio matrix: routine and leverage are typically blue, while bottleneck and strategic are red. He also presented the seller’s perspective, where customers can be nuisance, exploitable, development, or core depending on attractiveness and dependency.  <br /><br />His main advice: become unique, understand the buyer’s market and motivations, and manage expectations carefully. Sellers should ask questions, learn what the buying committee values, and build relationships early to move negotiations toward strategic, mutually beneficial outcomes.

Keywords

procurement

negotiation

sales

buyer-seller relationship

expectations

blue negotiation style

red negotiation style

purchasing portfolio matrix

strategic negotiation