Insights into the buyer’s mind – secrets revealed-Insights into the buyers mind secrets revealed

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Mark Shenkis, a procurement expert and author of <em>The Other Side of Sales</em>, explained how buyers think and how sellers can negotiate more effectively with procurement. He used simple examples to show that satisfaction depends not just on the outcome, but on expectations: the same £10,000 bonus feels disappointing if you expected £20,000, but great if you expected nothing.

He outlined key negotiation principles: stay comfortably uncomfortable, understand power as both actual and perceived, and recognize whether a negotiation is “blue” (competitive, price-driven, win-lose) or “red” (collaborative, win-win). He explained that if one side is blue and the other red, the table is still blue unless both sides shift to red.

Mark also introduced procurement’s purchasing portfolio matrix, showing how buyers treat categories differently based on financial impact and supply risk. Leverage and routine categories are blue; bottleneck and strategic categories are red. From the seller’s side, attractiveness and dependency determine whether the relationship is nuisance, exploitable, development, or core.

His main advice: become unique, understand the buyer’s broader organization, ask what they really value, and avoid leading with prepared sales pitches. The goal is to move from price-focused transactions to strategic partnerships.

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