Demystifying the RFP process-Demystifying the RFP process RFP Request for Proposal

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The webinar featured procurement expert Mark Shenkis discussing how RFPs (requests for proposals) really work from the buyer’s side and how sellers can improve their chances of winning business. He explained that RFPs are often less straightforward than they appear, like an iceberg with much of the decision-making happening behind the scenes.<br /><br />Mark outlined five reasons buyers launch RFPs: pressure, policy, benchmarking, benefits, or a genuine need for change. He stressed it’s important to identify the real motive before investing time in a bid. He also described the stages buyers go through, including market assessment, project team formation, stakeholder mapping, scope setting, supplier longlisting and shortlisting, and contract and criteria development.<br /><br />A major theme was negotiation style: blue chair negotiations are competitive and price-driven, while red chair negotiations are collaborative and value-creating. Mark shared several influence techniques from Robert Cialdini, including reciprocity, scarcity, authority, consistency, liking, social proof, and contrast.<br /><br />His key advice: get involved early, assess whether the RFP is real, understand the process, and influence the true decision makers—especially internal stakeholders. He also warned against giving unconditional discounts, urging sellers to offer concessions only under their own conditions.

Keywords

RFP

procurement

buyer-side

bid strategy

negotiation

stakeholder mapping

Cialdini principles

supplier selection

discount concessions